Are you and your spouse speaking the same language? While love may be a many- splendored thing, it is sometimes a very confusing thing, too. And as people come in all varieties, shapes, and sizes, so do their choices of personal expressions of love. But, more often than not, the giver and the receiver express love in two different ways. This can lead to misunderstanding, quarrels, and even divorce. Dr. Gary Chapman identifies five basic languages of love: Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. He then guides couples towards a better understanding of their unique languages of love. Learn to speak and understand your mate's love language, and in no time you will be able to effectively love and truly feel loved in return. Skillful communication is within your grasp
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对外邦人做基督使徒的保罗,歌颂高举爱说,人类所有的成就若不是出于爱,最后都是虚空。他的结论是:人生的最后一景仅存三样:「信、望、爱。而其中最大的是爱。」 「在每一个孩了里面,都有个『情绪的箱子』等着被添满爱。当一个孩子真正感觉到被爱,他才会正常地成长。但是,当爱箱空了的时候,这孩子就会有问题行为。多半的问题行为都是由于「空箱子」的渴求所激发。」
人们说着不同的爱的语言。 光诚恳是不够的;如果,我们要有效地沟通爱,我们必须愿意学习配偶的主要爱的语言。
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