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The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read

The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read
作者:Philippa Perry
副标题:(and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)
出版社:Penguin Life
出版年:2019-03
ISBN:9780241250990
行业:其它
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内容简介

'Hugely warm, wise, hopeful and encouraging' Alain de Botton

Every parent wants their child to be happy and every parent wants to avoid screwing them up. But how do you achieve that?

In this absorbing, clever and funny book, renowned psychotherapist Philippa Perry tells us what really matters and what behaviour it is important to avoid - the vital dos and don'ts of parenting.

Instead of mapping out the 'perfect' plan, Perry offers a big-picture look at the elements that lead to good parent-child relationships. This refreshing, judgement-free book will help you to:

· Understand how your own upbringing may affect your parenting

· Accept that you will make mistakes and learn what you can do about them

· Break negative cycles and patterns

· Handle your own and your child's feelings

· Understand what different behaviours communicate

Full of sage and sane advice, this is the book that every parent will want to read and every child will wish their parents had.

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作者简介

菲利帕·佩里

担任心理治疗师二十年,也是《红》杂志的答问专栏作家,自由写作者,电视与广播节目的主持人。

她参与制作了几部纪录片,包括为BBC Radio4制作的《儿童说谎的真相》(The Truth about Children Who Lie)、《情感时代》(The Age of Emotion)、《屈辱》(Humiliation),以及为BB的《性与谎言》(Sex,Lies & Love Bites:The Agony Aunt Story)、《如何成为超现实主义者》(How To Be A Surrealist With Philippa Perry),另外著有《心理治疗图解》(Couch Fiction:A Graphic Tale of Psychotherapy)、《如何维持情绪健康》(How to Stay Sane),现与身为艺术家的丈夫葛瑞森·派瑞(Grayson Perry)一起住在伦敦,育有一名已经成年的女儿弗洛(Flo)。

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读书文摘

孩子常会勾起我们内心旧有的感受,导致我们面对孩子时,不小心就因为那些被勾起的情绪而产生反应。因此,经常检视内心,多做自我批评,对父母来说极为重要,以免把破坏力传给下一代。

儿童是一个个体,但他也是整个系统的一部分。一个孩子的系统中,除了有亲密的家庭关系以外,还包括学校、他们的友谊,以及他吸收的文化。9 所以你应该观察那个系统,并尽你所能为你自己和孩子,把那个系统打造成最好的环境。环境没有必要是完美的,因为完美并不存在。

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