"All of us are creatures of a day,” wrote Marcus Aurelius, “rememberer and remembered alike.” In his long-awaited new collection of stories, renowned psychiatrist Irvin D. Yalom describes his patients’ struggles—as well as his own—to come to terms with the two great challenges of existence: how to have a meaningful life, and how to reckon with its inevitable end. In these pages, we meet a nurse, angry and adrift in a morass of misery where she has lost a son
to a world of drugs and crime, and yet who must comfort the more privileged through their own pain; a successful businessman who, in the wake of a suicide, despairs about the gaps and secrets that infect every relationship; a newly
minted psychologist whose study of the human condition damages her treasured memories of a lost friend; and a man whose rejection of philosophy forces even Yalom himself into a crisis of confidence. Their names and stories will linger
long after the book’s last page is turned.
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Irvin D. Yalom is an emeritus professor of psychiatry at Stanford University and a psychiatrist in private practice in San Francisco. He is the author of many books, including Love’s Executioner, Theory and Practice in Group Psychotherapy, and When Nietzsche Wept.
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撇开要与各种恶劣的自然和人文环境抗争以活下来,撇开我们的生命随时都会因为不可预知的意外而消失的处境,当我们衣食无忧而又天下太平时,我们内心为何仍然不得安宁?因为,我们仍然逃不脱我们必然的结局——“你将谁也不是,无处可在”。如此,我们为什么要活着,我们活着的意义又是什么?这是无数个走进我们治疗室的患者的困惑。
“我们每个人都是活在这一天的造物 我们每个人的一生都活在今天这一日;纪念者和被纪念者都一样。所有的一切都是短暂的——无论是记忆,还是被记忆的对象。很快,你会忘掉所有一切,很快,所有的一切也都会忘记你。不久之后,你将谁也不是,无处可终。”——沉思录
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