What Makes Love Last?
内容简介
A world-renowned relationship expert shares his research about love and what it takes to develop a trustful, intimate, and emotionally fulfilling bond.
In this insightful book, celebrated research psychologist and couples counselor John Gottman plumbs the mysteries of love and shares the results of his famous “Love Lab”: Where does love come from? Why does some love last, and why does some fade? And how can we keep it alive? Based on laboratory findings, this book shows readers how to identify signs, behaviors, and attitudes that indicate a fraying relationship and provides strategies for repairing what may seem lost or broken.
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作者简介
John Gottman, PhD has written numerous academic articles and is the author or coauthor of forty books, including the bestselling The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. His breakthrough research on marriage and parenting that has earned him numerous major awards, including four National Institute of Mental Health Research Scientist Awards. Currently a professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Washington, Gottman lives on Orcas Island, Washington.
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读书文摘
信任不是一种在两个人之间生长的模糊不清的品质。当双方愿意为了对方的利益去改变自己的行为时，信任就产生了。你们的关系之中信任越多，对彼此的关爱就越多。你会得到爱人的支持，反之亦然。在信任的关系中，你会为伴侣的成功而高兴，会为他的忧伤而烦恼。损他利己的事情，你怎么也高兴不起来。
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