30th Anniversary Edition
Updated with new insights from the next generation
You can stop fighting with your children! Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children—and more supportive of yourself. Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down-to-earth, respectful approach of Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. Now, in this thirtieth-anniversary edition, these award-winning experts share their latest insights and suggestions based on feedback they’ve received over the years.
Their methods of communication—illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action—offer innovative ways to solve common problems. You’ll learn how to:
* Cope with your child’s negative feelings—frustration, disappointment, anger, etc.
* Express your anger without being hurtful
* Engage your child’s willing cooperation
* Set firm limits and still maintain goodwill
* Use alternatives to punishment
* Resolve family conflicts peacefully
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阿黛尔•法伯(Adele Faber)和伊莱恩•玛兹丽施(Elaine Mazlish),国际著名亲子沟通专家,美国最畅销亲子教育书系作者。
她们是纽约市社会研究新校和长岛大学家庭生活研究所的创建者。本书是她们在创办的学校和研究所长期与父母们一起进行实验的研究总结。如今世界上数以千万的父母用自身的实践证明这些方法非常有效。她们除了在美国和加拿大各地频繁演讲外,还经常出现在《早安美国》(Good Morning America)和《欧普拉》(Oprah)等热门电视节目里。
法伯与玛兹丽施都是三位孩子的母亲,她们已被收录于美国名人录。
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孩子:妈妈。我想吃蛋糕。 妈妈:家里正好没有了,吃点饼干吧。 孩子:不,饼干太硬,我就要吃蛋糕。 妈妈:不是和你说没有吗,你怎么这么不听话,赶紧吃,要不你就饿着。 孩子:哇,你根本不爱我……,我要找姥姥。
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